Since the dawn of Disney and probably well before every little boy dreamed of being a mighty warrior, a big shot hero, a handsome prince or a benevolent king. Learning to settle for being a basically good person, an openminded and compassionate individual and a person who can cry and tell others he loves them is a decent default option that can take the rest of ones life to fully achieve. I just might be be getting there. The ADHD fortunately or unfortunately is forever.